Abandoning/walking out on psycho lover.

[DrSuicide]

Murder...

Its the only way.

[Rocko]

Restraining order, but watch your back, she might send someone to break your legs.

[KriminalMinded]

Originally Posted by DrSuicide

Murder...

Its the only way.

Not a half bad idea right now. As someone else said, it IS likely if I'm located she will send her new victim of lies "he raped me etc.." after me. I would really hate to hurt someone who is a victim himself, but if someone comes after me I'll be armed to the teeth waiting for them.

The crazy bitch is sleeping in my bed as we speak, just today she puckered her disgusting, repulsve lips for a kiss. I kissed her quickly as possible, and seriously felt ill immediately. If I hadn't kissed her a two hour fight would begin and I just didn't have the willpower for it.

It's funny how she was a very pretty girl when we met, now I think I'd rather chew off my fingertips then she her sickening face again.

[gmail]

You're in one FUCKED UP situation dude (im sure you didn't already know that.

But answer this: why the hell should you have to pack up your life and leave to another state because shes the psycho? Do anything and everything it takes to keep her away from you. Call the cops, get a restraining order. She'll obviously break that restraining order so make sure when she does it is on tape with you calmly asking her to leave and her flipping out. She'll be in jail soon enough.

Either that or just kill the bitch.

[Iehovah]

Some comments and suggestions based on what you wrote:

Originally Posted by KriminalMinded

She has physically assaulted two of my platonic female friends(thought both of them screwed me) and hates my best friend of 12 years.

I hope that they've actually filed reports with the police. That's a fine place to start your own restraining order from. It might also help if you get both of them to do the same. Strengthening your case if she ever pulls some bullshit with the cops and gets you arrested again.

Originally Posted by KriminalMinded

She has 'ways' of finding stuff out about me that NO ONE knows. She has caught me in my most discreet meetings with friends and is so knowledgable about me it's scary at times.

Change your passwords and locks, on everything. If she knows shit about your internet friends, make sure that you tell them someone might try to impersonate you (after you change your passwords). Get friendly with your neighbors if you arne't already and tell them that she's not to be in your house, and if they see her trying to get in, call the cops.

Originally Posted by KriminalMinded

I have no other choice but to move to the next state(where I have friends/family) and pack up one morning while she's sleeping and jet. It sucks because I can't get a house in my name(she will pay a Private Investigator, trust me)

Fuck that. Time to make a giant sized surgical cut in your life in the shape of this female.

Originally Posted by KriminalMinded

and no one can know my home number or where I live(she will con and lie to my relatives "I'm havin a baby" etc.. to extract info from them, it's been successful before)

Now would be a good time (and excuse) to go around renewing your relationship with all of your relatives and any friends she happens to know. Spend some time chatting with them, or if you're not into the smalltalk, get down to business and tell them what you told us. Point out that you're cutting her out of your life would appreciate it if they stonewall her on any information. Also point out that she's pulled shit like the "baby" scam to get information before.

This will be useful if you actually decide to leave, but I think you'll find it equally useful for cutting off the bitch's flow of information, and cutting her out of your family and friends completely. They just need to know the 411 on what's going on. If they have any respect for you, they can shut her out easily enough.

Originally Posted by KriminalMinded

When I make her leave she will call when I'm good and drunk and say "I want to have sex, can I come over?" and she ends up staying like she never left.

Get your number changed, make sure it's unlisted. Blocking her calls might be difficult given her persistence. Lay off the booze until you get your restraining order.

Originally Posted by KriminalMinded

I realise this seems like a cold and calculated way of breaking things off with someone with whom you've shared feelings and your body with but it's the only way to rid myself of her. If you see any of the stated signs of psycho obsession in your partner, please haul ass out of the relationship. That is all.

Sometimes life requires cold and calculating. Sounds to me like one of those times. Don't beat yourself up over it.

[ZeroMalarki]

Tell her to leave and if she doesn't, just dump her stuff in the street.

If she stalks you, get a restraining order.

[BinyatheBitch]

i agree with pretty much all the opionions. im in a weird relationship and im going to break it off soon. hes getting really clingy and jealous, and he seems like he might get abusive to himself or me. so im just gonna cut off all contact with him, its the only option i have left now.

just do that. restraining order is your best option right now. tell her to go to the store, throw her shit out, and get the order filled. just like the other guy said. be safe though, if she tried to attack you fucking kill that bitch. self defense against a mentally insane woman, always works. GL

[sidewayz6.6]

Originally Posted by jackketch

GO

Or in the soft and gentle words of t3h Yoyobek "Run away! RUN AWAY NOW! Spraying an uzi in your fleeing path".

Psh, who needs to run away when you have a fucking UZI?

OP, where are you located?

[kaworu_nagisa]

yeah dude, the best thing you can do is to try and pretty much counter everything you think she might do. Warn you're friends and family of any possible contact from this woman and what she might say, change the locks when she leaves and get a restraining order. Also getting some of her behavior on tape would work well. obviously alot of this wouldn't keep her away and there's always the chance of her sending people after you or coming after you herself, which means not going around alone for awhile. Get some friends to walk or drive with you to work for awhile, maybe have some buddies hang around your place more. Unfortunatly there doesn't seem to be any easy solution to your problem so the best of luck to you.

[KriminalMinded]

Originally Posted by sidewayz6.6

Psh, who needs to run away when you have a fucking UZI?

OP, where are you located?

Very bottom of Ohio. Just 20 or so miles from the WV border.