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quote:Originally posted by HAND:
You guys would be the bigger experts than the people in S&A. By cheating I dont mean sex, Just doing the same things her and I do As boyfriend and girlfriend. Going to a movie with a single guy or talking about feelings or being on the phone for hours, Stuff like that. Not saying she would or has but I want to know the moral seriousness to christians in this circumstance, Seeing as how were not married (she's my fiance as of now but I want to know about her feelings on that before)
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Are you asking if your fiance has gone out to movies, talked for hours on the phone with another guy, would that be cheating?
Not necessarily but, you would have to discover the nature of that relationship. Friends from childhood? Workmates? Are they shareing their feelings for one another?
Any rate, it would be a little disrespectful to your engagement if she were doing these things with someone else as they are activities of a courtship.
Be careful and don't get all messed up about it until you find out some facts. The last thing you want to do is going around all jealous and creating more problems for yourself.
If you sense she may be cheating then there is a good chance you are catching signals that she isn't as devoted to your relationship as you are. It's a sign she isn't ready for what you are asking her to do yet.
As for being in adultry or any other kind of sin along those lines I don't see it but I would take that with a grain of salt since all I have to go from is what you described. (which really isn't all that clear!)
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